Synastry: Neptune in a Partner's House

Spiritual Connections and Illusions

Explore what you might expect when a partner's Neptune falls into one of your chart houses. Comparing two charts is a virtual overlay of one on top of the other. This creates a situation where one person's planets will be "placed" in the houses of the other person's chart and holds true for each and every planet in both charts. Most astrologers use a BiWheel to view this. This is where one chart is in an inner ring and the other chart is placed outside of the first. The interpretations below start with your Neptune in relation to another chart.

house: 1st | 2nd | 3rd | 4th | 5th | 6th | 7th | 8th | 9th | 10th | 11th | 12th

Neptune in a partner's first house:

When your Neptune is in your romantic partner's first house, you bring out your partner’s imaginative, intuitive, and idealistically creative attributes, accompanied by a loss of personal boundaries and a loose idea of reality, self image, and truth. When your relationship partner’s Neptune is in your first house, he or she enjoys sharing fantasies with you and the both of you are more susceptible to self deception because you choose to see things as you want them to be rather than as they are.

Neptune in a partner's second house:

When your Neptune is in your romantic partner's second house, you both need to watch your finances or your tendency toward idealistically trusting others can cause you both serious financial loss. When your relationship partner’s Neptune is in your second house, be careful of plans which promise riches but are based upon impractical assumptions. You can be confused where money is concerned.

Neptune in a partner's third house:

When your Neptune is in your romantic partner's third house, you do not communicate clearly with your partner, you because you fail to observe if you are being understood and your partner because he or she is less attentive to details when you discuss things. When your relationship partner’s Neptune is in your third house, you do not see things involving him or her clearly. You are too open to creative wishful thinking.

Neptune in a partner’s fourth house:

When your Neptune is in your romantic partner’s fourth house, fantasy, playfulness, and imagination will play an important part in your domestic life, leaving you both open to visions about the ideal home life and confusion about the domestic situation you are actually participating in. When your relationship partner’s Neptune is in your fourth house, you are very vulnerable to being guided by wishful thinking and your domestic life is likely to be arranged in very imaginative ways.

Neptune in a partner's fifth house:

When your Neptune is in your romantic partner's fifth house, you both enjoy acting a bit playfully with each other whether you are playing games or being creatively romantic. Your imaginations are a real source of enjoyment. When your relationship partner’s Neptune is in your fifth house, your romance can be roses and moonlight or end up being wishful thinking and escapist sexual fantasies. You play best when you play together.

Neptune in a partner's sixth house:

When your Neptune is in your romantic partner’s sixth house, you add spice and imaginative variety to your partner’s life but he or she tends to see you inattentive in performing practical domestic responsibilities. When your relationship partner’s Neptune is in your sixth house, you don’t clearly understand your partner’s ideas about work and service. Your desire to take responsibility for all that you see needs to be done can lead you to sacrifice and disappointments if you overdo it.

Neptune in a partner's seventh house:

When your Neptune is in your romantic partner's seventh house, your partner has his or her own idealized version of you made to satisfy his or her imaginative idea of a perfect partner. When your relationship partner’s Neptune is in your seventh house, you do not see your partner as he or she is. You see what you want to see until time and close acquaintance dull the shiny edge off the relationship. Before you start to cast blame, remember that if you are unhappy with your partner failing to match up with your romantic ideals, no one deceived you except yourself.

Neptune in a partner's eighth house:

When your Neptune is in your romantic partner's eighth house, there tends to be a great deal of imagination and fantasy in your romantic and sexual life that can be difficult or even dangerous to live up to. You feel very generous with your partner and share everything easily with him or her. When your relationship partner’s Neptune is in your eighth house, fantasy and your inability to accurately see your partner can lead to jealousy and accusations of unfaithfulness or dishonesty. Your partner can find it easy to inspire, confuse, or even deceive you. That doesn’t mean he or she has or will.

Neptune in a partner's ninth house:

When your Neptune is in your romantic partner's ninth house, your inspiration and life philosophy give him or her renewed faith in the future, a greater desire to enjoy exploring new ideas and viewpoints together. When your relationship partner’s Neptune is in your ninth house, you have a very open minded relationship where your partner opens your awareness to a more spiritual or mystical philosophy of life.

Neptune in a partner's eleventh house:

When your Neptune is in your romantic partner's eleventh house, your idealistic ideas about what your partner is capable of achieving in his or her career can encourage or frustrate and confuse your partner about what you expect. When your relationship partner’s Neptune is in your tenth house, you need to pay attention to your own sense of practical details rather than cede final authority over your aspirations to another, even if he or she is well meaning.

Neptune in a partner’s eleventh house:

When your Neptune is in your romantic partner’s eleventh house, your partner may become confused as whether you have a friendship, a romantic relationship, or a bit of both. Your partner is inspired by your creativity and altruism. When your relationship partner’s Neptune is in your eleventh house, you are more likely to become involved with political, social, or humanitarian groups which represent your partner’s ideals. Sometimes it may all seem unclear. You may not be exactly sure just why you are there or what you really want to be doing.

Neptune in a partner's twelfth house:

When your Neptune is in your romantic partner's twelfth house, you are drawn together by a strong psychic bond and are likely to share secrets and mysterious or mystical experiences. Your inspire each other and release abilities. When your relationship partner’s Neptune is in your twelfth house your partner stimulates your spirituality and imaginative creativity. The two of you live both in this world and one of your own making.


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