Astrologer: Maxine Taylor
for
Emma Watson April 15, 1990 6:00 PM Paris, France
INTRODUCTION
We are all looking for unconditional love. Most of us never got it. When we fall in love we think, "Now, finally, here is someone who will give me the (unconditional) love I've always wanted."
So we marry. Then it starts---because we're not programmed for love. Instead, we are programmed to duplicate our parents' relationship. Because of this programming, even if we found someone who loved us unconditionally, we would have to push them away.
How can we attract what we are not programmed to receive? We can't---until we take a conscious look at what we are programmed to attract. Only then can we change our lives.
This program is designed to help us do just that.
Your birth chart interpretation is based on the positions of the planets at the time of your birth. For the benefit of students of astrology, these positions, along with other technical information, are listed below:
Sun 25 Ari 25 Pluto 16 Sco 59
Moon 25 Sag 53 N. Node 13 Aqu 18
Mercury 14 Tau 37 Asc. 27 Vir 00
Venus 9 Pis 44 MC 26 Gem 13
Mars 26 Aqu 04 2nd cusp 21 Lib 08
Jupiter 4 Can 34 3rd cusp 21 Sco 02
Saturn 25 Cap 02 5th cusp 1 Aqu 44
Uranus 9 Cap 35 6th cusp 2 Pis 13
Neptune 14 Cap 34
Tropical Placidus Daylight Savings Time observed
GMT: 16:00:00 Time Zone: 1 hours East
Lat. and Long. of birth: 48 N 52 2 E 20
Aspects and orbs:
Conjunction: 10 Degrees
Opposition : 10 Degrees
Square : 10 Degrees
Trine : 10 Degrees
Sextile : 7 Degrees
HIDDEN MESSAGES
PROGRAMMING
She was an extremely beautiful woman in her mid-thirties. She was also an extremely successful business woman---equal to or better than many men in her profession. She'd come to me for a consultation because she was considering remarrying. Although her two previous marriages had been unsuccessful, she longed for a man with whom she could be happy. She was in my office because she honestly wondered if that were possible.
In the course of the consultation, she shared with me that her mother was successful in her career. Message: BE A SUCCESS IN YOUR CAREER. She also shared that her mother had been married several times, so she was programmed for multiple marriages. Each time my client married, her mother encouraged her to leave her husband. Her mother's message was: MARRY, BUT DON'T STAY MARRIED. As a child, my client saw her mother win every argument with each of her husbands. Message: ARGUE WITH MEN AND WIN. My client's father was strong, but distant and unaffectionate. Message: MEN ARE DISTANT AND UNAFFECTIONATE. My client created this situation in her marriages and felt unloved by her husbands. Each of her stepfathers put up a good fight, but ultimately they left. Message: MEN WILL PUT UP A GOOD FIGHT AND THEN LEAVE.
The combination of verbal and non-verbal messages produced a woman who resented men, yet kept turning to them to make her happy. Because she was programmed for marriage to be stormy and her husbands to leave, she created just that. She married strong men and wound up emasculating them. She was looking for love, but her programming would not let her keep it.
Her fiancé played right into the program. He was stubborn and determined. He was not a success in his career, although he had great potential. Each time he came close to success, he'd fall short. His ambitions were high, but he became a dilettante. He made a great impression, but had no money. His programming explained it all. At one point in time, his father had been very important and successful in his career. When the young man was just a boy, his father had been nominated for an extremely prestigious award. Winning this award would have meant financial security for the rest of his life. Unfortunately, another nominee was selected as the winner. From that point on, the son was programmed to COME CLOSE, BUT FALL SHORT, and that's exactly what he did in every area of life.
His parents had not gotten along. His proud, stoic father had given him the message that THE WOMAN SHOULD PUT THE MAN FIRST. He also felt that MEN WERE MORE INTELLIGENT THAN WOMEN.
These two were programmed for each other. Here was a chauvinist up against a powerful woman; a business failure up against a business success. Neither one, however, was programmed for a warm, loving relationship, though that's what they both wanted. When faced with a situation like this, the first reaction might be to discourage a marriage, since it seems doomed to failure. Yet, these two people were attracted to each other precisely because they could give one another what each was programmed to receive. And, in spite of their programming, they loved one another. This love could, if they chose, be the impetus to help them see and release their programming and create a warm, loving relationship.
This situation occurs all the time. Our hidden messages are so deeply ingrained in our subconscious that we respond to them unknowingly. For example, if one of your hidden messages is that YOU CANNOT BE HAPPY WHILE A FAMILY MEMBER IS UNHAPPY, you will find that you are never happy because there is always someone who needs your help. Even if you are miles away, just knowing that a relative might be unhappy about something can upset you. After awhile, this message can be triggered simply by the suggestion of happiness--as soon as you feel good you have to feel bad. This totally destroys your enjoyment of life.
Another common message is that YOU WILL NEVER BE AS GOOD AS YOUR FATHER (OR MOTHER, OLDER SISTER, YOUNGER BROTHER, ETC.). If you received this message, you will see to it that you fall short of your goals so as not to surpass him. If he has not been much of a success in his life, where does that leave you?
We have been told that if we will live up to the potential indicated in the natal chart, our lives will work. Why, then, are so many lives not working? The answer is simple: they ARE working, or at least the hidden messages are working, running our lives. By knowing what these messages are, we can be free to be our highest and best, to be limitless.
YOUR FATHER'S MESSAGES
THE SUN
Your father takes you from the security of the home and teaches you how to act in society. He helps you form your public image, the face you want the world to see. The Sun represents your father.
Sun in Aries:
Your father is direct and wants his ego needs satisfied NOW. He gave you the same message. He can be impatient and is always looking for a fire to put out. He taught you to be aggressive, active and direct.
Sun in 8th house:
Your father's message is to be secretive. He hides a great deal of himself and you do the same. You can hide from yourself, though, as well as others. He taught you to compensate for insecurities by manipulating, controlling, and putting others on the defensive. He also gave you the message to help other people develop their own money, resources, and priorities. This means that you can put other people's values, especially his, ahead of your own. He was a detective of sorts, and taught you to look beyond the obvious. Your attitude toward your father will undergo a change in this lifetime permitting you to grow and express your highest and best.
Sun in soft aspect to Moon:
At the time of your birth, your parents were in harmony, indicating that the male and female qualities are balanced within you. Your parents' positive relationship was a good role model, enabling you to have fulfilling interpersonal relationships. You get along well with both men and women.
Sun-Mercury angle more than 10 degrees:
Your father taught you to stand back from situations and people in order to see them objectively. This applies to him as well. Because of your objectivity, you are able to converse with others without constantly bringing the conversation back to yourself and your opinions.
Sun in soft aspect to Mars:
Your father is direct and assertive, yet channels his energies well. He taught you to do the same. Your sexual energies are well-directed and you enjoy a certain amount of competition. While you want to win, you are a good sport. You have a lot of energy and vitality.
Sun in hard aspect to Saturn:
Your father is cold, aloof and distant. He taught you to build a wall around yourself, which keeps others from getting close. He wants your respect rather than your love. You may show him respect out of fear of what he might do if you didn't. He fears and resents authority figures. You feel that way about him and, as a result, other authority figures. You want to be an authority figure in order to "show" him.
YOUR MOTHER'S MESSAGE
THE MOON
The most important person in your early years is your mother. Because the Moon rules both the mother and the subconscious, her influence reaches you on the deepest levels. It might be said that since the subconscious is the repository of all past-life experiences, your mother triggers this memory, which is why her influence is so strong.
Your mother's main message is to look for emotional security. The house in which the Moon is placed natally indicates that area of life in which you hope to find this security. You received this message either directly or indirectly. She told you where to look for it, and you spend the rest of your life looking for it where she said it would be. The sign in which the Moon falls describes your mother, as do the aspects to the Moon. The aspects also tell you if it will be easy or difficult to find the security you seek. Because the Moon is changeable, the promise of emotional security is elusive. Perhaps this is why you keep returning to the place where it is supposed to be, hoping it will be there this time.
Keep in mind that these messages are not necessarily verbal. You can receive them from her actions as well as her words; by her presence as well as her absence.
Moon in Sagittarius:
Your mother has a great need for freedom and is probably quite philosophical about life. She may tend to exaggerate, but tries to be honest at all times. She taught you to explore new horizons, open your mind to new concepts and seek the truth. You are both affable, generous and see the humor in all of life's situations. Your true security comes through having the freedom to soar.
Moon in 3rd house:
Your mother's message is to think emotionally and remember not just what happened, but how you felt about what happened. Your emotional security need may be fulfilled through talking. You are probably quite psychic, but may find it difficult to discern between intuition and emotion. The female influence in your early environment was strong. The Moon here can indicate not just your mother, but other female relatives. Travel may help fulfill your need for security. Your mother taught you to take your ideas personally, to identify with them emotionally, and to think defensively. However, your true freedom comes from letting go of your emotional attachment to your ideas.
Moon in soft aspect to Sun:
At the time of your birth, your parents were in harmony, indicating that the male and female qualities are balanced within you. Your parents' positive relationship gave you a good role model, enabling you to have fulfilling interpersonal relationships. You get along well with both men and women.
Moon in soft aspect to Mars:
You and your mother deal directly and forthrightly with each other. She taught you to channel your energies positively without wasting them. As a result, you are able to get things done quickly and easily. You have a good rapport with both men and women. You function well in competitive situations.
Moon in hard aspect to Jupiter:
This aspect tends toward overindulgence and exaggeration. Your mother buys love and compensates for lack of it. You tend to exaggerate your moods and attract people who overdo a good thing. You may overwhelm people by coming on larger-then-life.
MESSAGES FROM AUTHORITY FIGURES
Saturn is reality and often, restriction. In the natal chart, it can represent your mother, father, grandparents, family ---anyone who imposes a restrictive influence on your life and tries to teach you reality through discipline.
Saturn in Capricorn:
The authority figures in your life are hard-working, practical and very disciplined. Prestige, status and money are important to them and they taught you to be concerned with appearances. They taught you to go after power.
Saturn in 4th house:
You feel responsible for your family's security. This can make you feel restricted. Your family can be run by an authority figure who is very disciplined, traditional and can instill fear in you. You may feel responsible for this person's security and, on some level, equally responsible for any unhappiness he/she experiences.
Saturn in hard aspect to Sun:
You have a fear of authority figures which can masquerade as respect. You are afraid that if you don't give them the respect they want, they will impose more restrictions on you. They are traditional, rigid and build walls around themselves. You resent them because YOU want to be an authority figure. Yet, responsibility implies a certain amount of restriction to you. You prefer respect to love. Displays of affection make you uncomfortable.
PLUTO
Pluto is another indicator of your mother's ---and sometimes your grandmother's---message. Pluto represents total change, control, and transmutation. It is the all-or-nothing planet. Pluto deals with all the mysteries of life: life itself, where it originates, where it goes when it leaves this plane. Pluto and the aspects it makes in your chart describe your mother's message about and your attitude towards sex.
Pluto's house placement indicates where there can be a power play with your mother, where you will both try to dominate and control, and where you can bring about a total transformation. You control because you don't trust. You don't trust the people who rule the house in which Pluto falls.
While Pluto represents your mother's message, it can also represent your grandmother's. Use whichever word applies to you.
Pluto in Scorpio:
Pluto in Scorpio teaches you lessons about control and the transmutation of power, especially nuclear power.
Pluto in 2nd house:
Your mother's message is to hang on to your money and possessions, yet she is to be your greatest possession. She taught you to control with money and make it your tool, but she can control you financially. You can transfer control from mother to money. Then it is money which controls you. At some point in time, your values will undergo a total change and you will be free of your maternal message regarding money and values.
Pluto in hard aspect to Mercury:
It may be hard to communicate with your mother because you cannot trust her not to entrap you with your own words. This can extend to others, making you suspicious and mistrustful. Your mind is quick and deep, but negative psychic impressions can block the flow. You may have a hope-for-the-best-but-expect-the-worst approach to life.
Pluto in soft aspect to Venus:
You feel deeply loved by your mother and this makes you a loving person in return. Your mother gave you positive messages regarding love and sex, which permit you to enjoy both. You are creative and can enjoy the good things in life without going overboard.
Pluto in hard aspect to Mars:
You may feel strong, yet suppressed resentment at the control your mother exerts over you, and an equally strong need to retaliate. Past hurts are hard to forget, which creates the desire for vindication and conquest. Your competitive side and sexual energies are strong and can get out of hand, which can force you into precipitous action. The underlying feeling of this aspect is KILL OR BE KILLED.
Pluto in soft aspect to Neptune:
There is a positive psychic bond between you and your mother. Your spiritual side is active, and you have vision and insight.
Pluto in hard aspect to North and South Nodes:
The misuse of psychic energies in past lives can lead you to use manipulation and control in order to get your way. This can backfire. The inability to trust your mother and the fear of being controlled makes it difficult for you to trust.
THE FOURTH AND TENTH HOUSES
The fourth house relates to home, family and your deepest emotional security needs. It describes the parent to whom you look for the fulfillment of these needs. Traditional astrology gives the mother rulership over this house because she has been the nurturing parent, the one who stayed home and cared for the family. Today, though, mother often pursues a career, and it is father who provides the emotional security.
The tenth house rules your career, your public image and the authority figure(s) in your life. It is your father who teaches you how to get along in the world outside the home. As such, the tenth house traditionally relates to him.
There are no set rules as to which parent rules which house. Sometimes one parent fulfills both roles. Other times the parents reverse roles. Each chart must be analyzed individually to determine which parent rules the fourth and which rules the tenth.
The relationship between the fourth and tenth is important because your home, family and the security they give you determine how you will do outside the home. If you don't get what you need from one parent, you may turn to the other, who may or may not be able to fulfill your needs. Lack of emotional security in the home can lead to compensation in the career. The career, then, can become a parent replacement.
The signs on the cusps of the fourth and tenth houses add another dimension to understanding your parents. When trying to determine which house is which parent, it is helpful to exaggerate the descriptions enough to allow yourself to be able to make a distinction between the two.
Sagittarius on 4th Cusp:
This parent is talkative and gives the impression of being two people in one. He/she looks and acts youthful.
Gemini on 10th Cusp:
This parent is generous with family members and philosophical about life. He/she may be a clown. While he/she might exaggerate, he/she would not lie.
Jupiter in 10th house:
This parent is generous and optimistic. While he/she can exaggerate and possibly indulge, he/she is honest.
Saturn in 4th house:
You regard this parent as an authority figure. Grandparents can play an important role in your home life. You feel responsible for your family's security, which can make you feel restricted. This parent is very disciplined, traditional and can instill fear in you. You may feel responsible for his/her security and, on some level, for any unhappiness he/she experiences.
Uranus in 4th house:
This parent is very much his/her own person. He/she can be inventive, intuitive or possibly rebellious. He/she marches to his/her own drumbeat.
Neptune in 4th house:
You do not see this parent clearly. He/she is either an inspiration or a disappointment; spiritual and giving, or martyred and living in a make-believe world. If the latter, he/she can escape into alcohol, drugs, food, etc.
THE ROVING DELEGATES
The signs represent principles to be learned. The house cusp on which a sign falls tells us the area of life in which that principle will be learned. Usually, the principle manifests in more than one area of life, since the ruler, or ROVING DELEGATE of that sign, carries the message to another house.
It makes no difference what sign falls on the cusp in question. We simply link the sign with its ruler's house position. For example, with Virgo on the fourth and Mercury in the eleventh, the ruler of the fourth is in the eleventh. The same thing is true if Taurus is on the fourth and Venus is in the eleventh. The same concept applies in each case.
The house in which the fourth or tenth house ruler falls gives us more information regarding that parent's messages.
Ruler of 4th house in 10th:
This parent either assumed both parental roles or, if other chart indications bear this out, reversed roles with the tenth-house parent. The message is to find your emotional security with either the tenth-house parent or in your career.
Ruler of 10th house in 8th:
You have strong issues relating to authority and power as a result of this parent's influence. You will work through these issues, however,. This parent gave you your sexual attitudes. He or she helps you look beyond the obvious and investigate life's mysteries. He or she helps you deal with joint finances in your career.
A FINAL WORD
Now that you've looked at your programming, you may be wondering if it will control you forever or if there is something you can do to change it, to move past it. There is. You can release it and yourself to God in complete faith and trust and just BE. When you come from BEING, you are coming from unconditional love. You see beauty everywhere. You are one with the whole and know that you are protected and loved.
New Age Jewelry
by cosmic artist
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