for
Tony
and
Melanie
Birth Data for Tony:
August 10, 1960 9:10 PM Malaga, Spain
Birth Data for Melanie:
August 9, 1957 11:49 PM New York, New York
The Psyche and Eros Compatibility Report
What is it you want to know when you are checking out a romantic relationship? Basically two things. First, you want to understand the emotional needs, temperament, hang-ups and issues each person brings to the relationship. In other words, the relationship potential of each person. And then, of course, you want to understand how the emotional needs, temperament, hang-ups and issues of one person relate to those of another person in order to see how they would get along. In other words, the compatibility analysis.
The first two sections of the complete Psyche and Eros Relationship Analysis describes the relationship potential of each person. Sections 3 and 4 is the compatibility analysis and describes how the two people experience each other and the relationship from the perspective of each person.
The myth of Psyche and Eros is a love story which shows the soul's longing for -- and ultimate attainment of -- love.
Your birth chart interpretation is based on the positions of the planets at the time of your birth. For the benefit of students of astrology, these positions, along with other technical information, are listed below:
Data for Tony: Data for Melanie:
Tropical Zodiac Tropical Zodiac
House System: EQUAL House System: EQUAL
Standard time observed Daylight Savings Time observed
Time Zone: 1 hours East Time Zone: 5 hours West
GMT: 20:10:00 GMT: 03:49:00
36 N 43 4 W 25 40 N 42 51 74 W 00 23
Sun 18 deg 10 min Leo Sun 17 deg 15 min Leo
Moon 7 deg 51 min Ari Moon 12 deg 58 min Aqu
Merc 0 deg 08 min Leo Merc 14 deg 24 min Vir
Venus 1 deg 42 min Vir Venus 18 deg 09 min Vir
Mars 5 deg 40 min Gem Mars 1 deg 13 min Vir
Jup 23 deg 56 min Sag Jup 0 deg 33 min Lib
Sat 12 deg 50 min Cap Sat 7 deg 41 min Sag
Uran 21 deg 12 min Leo Uran 7 deg 56 min Leo
Nept 6 deg 31 min Sco Nept 0 deg 03 min Sco
Pluto 5 deg 16 min Vir Pluto 29 deg 42 min Leo
Asc. 9 deg 57 min Pis Asc. 20 deg 03 min Tau
MC 18 deg 24 min Sag MC 29 deg 27 min Cap
2nd 9 deg 57 min Ari 2nd 20 deg 03 min Gem
3rd 9 deg 57 min Tau 3rd 20 deg 03 min Can
5th 9 deg 57 min Can 5th 20 deg 03 min Vir
6th 9 deg 57 min Leo 6th 20 deg 03 min Lib
SECTION I: How Tony Relates to Other People
Virgo on 7th house cusp
You are a dreamer - emotional, sensitive and intuitive. You can be a loner. You tend to form personal ties with people you meet through work - either yours or theirs. An ideal relationship for you would be intimate both personally and professionally.
You like to think of your partners as perfect so you may mind it less than most would when they tend to be rather critical of you. Usually, they are gentle and reserved and far more practical than you are. They take care of the little details you often forget.
Your dreams, ideals and speculations about matters which transcend day-to-day living are so central to your existence that any person you feel close to must be someone with whom you can discuss these ideas since no one else seems to understand them.
Your partners are bright, verbal, curious people who, on the surface may not appear to have a great deal of emotional depth. However, they connect with you intellectually and that tie appears to be the channel through which you can share emotionally.
Mercury, Ruler of 7th house, is in 5th:
A unique quality you have that contributes to your creativity is your special gift of seeing every situation with a fresh perspective. A child views each situation with interest and a kind of wonder. You are fortunate in that you have carried that enthusiasm into adulthood. That implies an originality which animates your creative ideas. You are strongly drawn to expressive, confident people -- sometimes younger than you -- who enjoy life as much as you do. When you were a child, your parents did not express love in an emotional or sentimental way. They showed their affection by doing things with you and including you in family discussions. You express your love similarly. An affair doesn't become love unless there is also mutual enjoyment of the arts or sports or ideas involving speculative matters, children or something that taps your productivity. You may, at times, be accused of using your mind to distance yourself from the vulnerability of the heart. When this is said it hurts your feelings because that is not the way you perceive the situation. For you, the mind helps to unlock the vulnerability of the heart.
Uranus Trine MC with an orb between 1 and 3 degrees
It's never been possible for you to live according to anyone else's timetable. For that reason, you prefer to work for yourself and make your own rules. In order for you to sustain a close, personal tie, you must find someone as independent as you are.
Sun Conjunct Uranus with an orb between 3 and 5 degrees
You are restless and independent and, no matter how close you become to someone, you always remain your own person and there is a part of yourself you cannot share. You are uncompromisingly true to your convictions which must be shared by those close to you.
Pluto Opposition Asc. with an orb between 3 and 5 degrees
You are not always aware of your own magnetism. Others find you intense and, sometimes, controlling. You have such strong fears of losing relationships that sometimes you imagine that people are turning against you when the opposite is more often true.
Moon Square Saturn with an orb between 3 and 5 degrees
You don't have as much self-confidence as you appear to have. You long for love and affection but have never felt, since childhood, that you could have it, simply by being. You feel you have to earn it in some way. You like close ties to need and depend on you.
Venus Square Mars with an orb between 3 and 5 degrees
Yours was not a happy childhood and, while there is nothing you want more than a close love relationship, you may also fear it. You probably have an active sex life but may have some discomfort acknowledging feelings of love, dependence or vulnerability.
Mars Square Asc. with an orb between 3 and 5 degrees
You have a tremendous amount of energy and, in a relationship, are happiest when you and your partner are actively participating in something together. You tend to be quite competitive and can even be somewhat combative. You should always avoid the timid.
Neptune Trine Asc. with an orb between 3 and 5 degrees
You have a gentle, romantic, dreamy quality and people often find you mysterious or elusive. You have an uncanny facility to communicate with people without speaking and to tune into their innermost thoughts. You connect best with those equally sensitive.
Moon Sextile Mars with an orb between 1 and 5 degrees
You are passionate, competitive and high-spirited and enjoy relationships with assertive, independent people. You're restless and active and, when you are close to someone, like to do things together. You enjoy a good fight and don't carry a grudge.
Venus Sextile Neptune with an orb between 1 and 5 degrees
However cool or cynical you may appear to be externally, you are extraordinarily sensitive and romantic. You are gentle and artistic and would rather do without a relationship than be part of one which does not measure up to your highest ideals of love.
Saturn Sextile Asc. with an orb between 1 and 5 degrees
You were not encouraged to be overly expressive when you were a child and as an adult still tend to be somewhat reserved. You often give the impression of being serious or even stern when, in truth, you are simply feeling shy or self-protective.
Moon Sesquiquadrate Uranus with an orb between 1 and 2 degrees
You have an emotional, if not conscious, recollection of early emotional nurturing which was erratic or unpredictable. As an adult, you instinctively set up emotional situations where you have some independent outlet - either other people or work projects.
Jupiter Conjunct MC with an orb between 5 and 8 degrees
When you were little, your teachers liked you and when you grew up, your employers liked you. You tend to approach all relationships both personal and professional with an easy assurance. It is important to you that close ties enjoy society's approval.
Mercury Square Neptune with an orb between 5 and 8 degrees
Your imagination is so powerful that, if you don't have a strong creative or spiritual outlet, you may at times be over-influenced by your own fantasies or those of others. Beware of gullibility. In the long run, telling the truth is in your best interest.
Sun Trine Jupiter with an orb between 5 and 8 degrees
You have a genial, pleasant quality which inspires confidence in others. It sometimes surprises you the way people trust you with their innermost thoughts. Moral integrity is important to you and, while you are not judgmental, you will not violate a principle.
Moon Trine Mercury with an orb between 5 and 8 degrees
You're sensitive and perceptive and in touch with your feelings. No matter how difficult a situation is, you feel you can deal with it if you can understand it. Someone who is less emotionally self-aware or expressive would make you feel uncomfortable. You like to discuss everything. Feelings that aren't acknowledged can't be discussed.
Venus Trine Jupiter with an orb between 5 and 8 degrees
Yours was an indulged childhood with lots of love and lots of cookies. You have a generous nature both emotionally and materially and people are usually pleased to provide you with the love and creature-comforts you both require and cheerfully give.
Sun does not aspect Moon
Your parents' interests and emotional natures, while not in violent conflict, were so different it was hard to understand how they ever came together. You associate close relationships with both longing and loneliness and may be unclear about roles.
Sun does not aspect Asc.
People do not receive an accurate first impression of you. Owing to shyness or lack of confidence, you have cultivated a persona which is not expressive of the person you experience yourself to be. This creates complications in personal relationships.
SECTION II: How Melanie Relates to Other People
Scorpio on 7th house cusp
You are earthy, sensual and, secretly, a little vain. Your "creature comforts" are important to you and you will always manage to be materially secure. You are very persevering (and sometimes very stubborn) and tend to form long-lasting relationships.
Those to whom you are close are endlessly fascinating in that you never feel you totally understand or possess them. Sometimes this arouses possessiveness or jealousy but it certainly maintains your interest. They are deeply emotional, reserved and powerful.
You are attracted to intensely magnetic people who are extremely controlling and not always easy to understand. You, yourself, are loving, sensual, somewhat stubborn and possessive and have strong security needs. You love strength but may resent dominance.
Power struggles are not unusual in your relationships although they may take subtle forms such as obsession, jealousy or fears of abandonment. The emotional ties between you and your mate are deep and engulfing and require total trust on both sides.
Saturn in 7th
You are torn between a compulsive desire for close permanent ties and a fear of intimacy. You may attempt to "resolve" this by becoming involved with people who are either emotionally unresponsive, married or have other commitments or interests.
Early marriages or commitments are rarely successful while those formed in mid-life are deep and enduring. Frequently, there is a considerable age difference between partners. For you, relationships - personal or professional - are never casual matters.
Pluto, Ruler of 7th house, is in 4th:
It's ironic that someone who so values security, both emotionally and materially, should have experienced such volcanic disruptions in your home and family throughout your life. When you were a child, these changes may have been due to finances, abrupt changes in circumstances, family crises, deaths or changes of residence. There may also have been a complicated situation related to your father which dominated your childhood.
As an adult, you are attracted to people who are strong, dynamic and with whom you feel you can establish the stable home you may not have enjoyed as a child. And you will do what it takes to make it work. You will change your life style or move to a far-off place. Whatever it takes. Your most enduring relationships are usually those which require such major life changes. When you are involved in a relationship that is an extension of your life as you know it and doesn't require any major change, the transformations occur in the person with whom you are involved. It could be a change of circumstances or a personal crisis or even a great success which would strongly impact your relationship. One way or another, even if you have chosen someone who did not seem to be controlling by nature, the course of the relationship and, indeed, your life will be determined as much by your partner's destiny as by your own.
Neptune Square MC with an orb between 1/2 and 1 degree
You are guided far more by your spiritual ideals than by more material motivations. While intimate ties are important to you, if the other person didn't share your more cosmic goals, the relationship could not last. Your dreams often become realities.
Sun Square Asc. with an orb between 1 and 3 degrees
You have a strong, dynamic personality which is not always supported by the inner confidence that you are sufficiently recognized and respected. You may, at times, over-compensate for this anxiety by being excessively assertive or egocentric.
Venus Trine Asc. with an orb between 1 and 3 degrees
You are personally attractive with a natural charm which tends to draw people to you. Your native courtesy tends to make others assume that you share their values even when this isn't quite the case. You are unusually sensitive to others' appearance.
Jupiter Trine MC with an orb between 1 and 3 degrees
When you were little, your teachers liked you and when you grew up, your employers liked you. You tend to approach all relationships both personal and professional with an easy assurance. It is important to you that close ties enjoy society's approval.
Mercury SemiSquare Neptune with an orb of less than 1 degree
Your imagination is so powerful that, if you don't have a strong creative or spiritual outlet, you may at times be over-influenced by your own fantasies or those of others. Beware of gullibility. In the long run, telling the truth is in your best interest.
Mercury Sesquiquadrate MC with an orb of less than 1 degree
No one has ever quarreled with the obvious fact of your intelligence, however your ideas often put you at odds with people in positions of authority, leaving you with two alternatives: a continuous battle or a withdrawal into your own independent sphere.
Mercury Conjunct Venus with an orb between 3 and 5 degrees
Intelligence is sexy to you. If a person you find physically attractive isn't also bright, verbal and someone you can talk to, you're not interested. You have a highly developed aesthetic sense and are drawn to people of taste, wit and charm.
Sun Opposition Moon with an orb between 3 and 5 degrees
When you were growing up, there was a distance between your parents either physically or emotionally. You did not experience mother/father, male/female, yin/yang working together as a unit. Thus, you may have difficulty with at least one intimate tie.
Sun SemiSquare Jupiter with an orb between 1 and 2 degrees
Sometimes you suffer from an excess of enthusiasm and plunge into relationships and projects without seriously considering beforehand the viability of the situation. You are kind, honest and good-humored. Sometimes you're also a show-off or a know-it-all.
Moon Quincunx Mercury with an orb between 1 and 3 degrees
It's as if the emotional and rational sides of your nature take turns expressing themselves. You are either utterly detached and objective about a situation or so emotionally involved you have no perspective. You are not in touch with your feelings.
Moon Opposition Uranus with an orb between 5 and 8 degrees
You have an emotional, if not conscious, recollection of early emotional nurturing which was erratic or unpredictable. As an adult, you instinctively set up emotional situations where you have some independent outlet - either other people or work projects.
Moon Square Asc. with an orb between 5 and 8 degrees
You often feel emotionally misunderstood. You may have learned as a child to hide your true feelings in order to accommodate those around you. As an adult, your outer manner often belies your inner responses more than you may consciously realize or intend.
Mercury Square Saturn with an orb between 5 and 8 degrees
You are a serious person and inclined to be somewhat inflexible in your thinking. Since you tend to be rather judgmental, you could only be happy with someone who is in philosophical agreement with you and conceptualizes the world as you do. Sometimes you are rather taciturn.
Mars Square Saturn with an orb between 5 and 8 degrees
Your emotional needs were not met when you were growing up and there was nothing you could do about it. Even today, you tend not to express anger or pain or resentment except when you are in an infrequent rage. This is a problem in close relationships.
Mercury Trine Asc. with an orb between 5 and 8 degrees
You are extremely verbal and communicative and have no difficulty in making your thoughts and ideas clearly understood. At times, however, you may become a bit glib and use your "gift of gab" as a means of protecting yourself from emotional vulnerability.
Sun Conjunct Uranus with an orb between 8 and 10 degrees
You are restless and independent and, no matter how close you become to someone, you always remain your own person and there is a part of yourself you cannot share. You are uncompromisingly true to your convictions which must be shared by those close to you.
SECTION III: The Relationship from Tony's Point of View
Tony, the following information explains how you view your relationship with Melanie, and explores some of the major issues that arise.
Your Sun Conj Melanie's Sun (orb < 1 deg)
You enjoy an easy camaraderie and generally feel quite comfortable together. People tend to perceive you as similar types. One of the things you like about each other is your compatibility of goals and the lack of underlying tension in your relationship.
Your Venus Conj Melanie's Mars (orb < 1 deg)
A sexual energy permeates your relationship and will underlie all aspects of your connection. In addition Melanie stimulates your creativity, heightens your energy and lends a certain excitement to all of your contacts. Melanie's presence makes you feel livelier.
Your Mercury Oppos Melanie's MC (orb < 1 deg)
This would be a very good working relationship. You connect very strongly with Melanie's goals and ambitions and can, through your communication skills, work together to attain them. Melanie respects your intelligence and opinions and will frequently defer to your judgment.
Your Mercury Square Melanie's Neptune (orb < 1 deg)
Do you really understand Melanie's dreams and ideals? Perhaps not. Perhaps Melanie senses that you would consider them unrealistic or impractical and doesn't always share private feelings or thoughts with you. You may sometimes find Melanie mysterious.
Your MC Square Melanie's Venus (orb < 1 deg)
Melanie is attracted to your social or public image even though it isn't entirely congruous with personal values and tastes. Sometimes you may feel that Melanie's values and affectional needs may make achieving your personal goals somewhat more complicated.
Your Moon Trine Melanie's Saturn (orb < 1 deg)
The approval of people you care about is important to you so you would be uncomfortable doing anything Melanie didn't respect. You avoid arguments because somehow Melanie has a knack for always sounding right. Doesn't that remind you just a little of your mother?
Your Moon Trine Melanie's Uranus (orb < 1 deg)
You find Melanie exciting and stimulating and always feel up when you are together. Melanie has a way of viewing life which is so original that even when you disagree, you find ideas are triggered in you which are most true to your innermost sense of self.
Your Mercury Sextile Melanie's Jupiter (orb < 1 deg)
The two of you talk easily. Melanie enables you both to expand your ideas and to express them. If anything, Melanie tends to trigger so much enthusiasm in you, sometimes you say more than you should. You trust Melanie's intelligence and guidance.
Your Venus Conj Melanie's Pluto (orb 1-5 deg)
Melanie holds a special fascination for you. The bond between you might be somewhat obsessive. Melanie often exerts an influence over you others may find difficult to understand. This relationship can transform the way you love and relate the rest of your life.
Your Mars Oppos Melanie's Saturn (orb 1-5 deg)
On one level Melanie fascinates you and motivates you to be the best that you can be. On another, there is something about Melanie which pressures you somehow and can lead to resentment. If this is not dealt with openly, it can inhibit sexual responsiveness.
Your Asc. Oppos Melanie's Mercury (orb 1-5 deg)
There is something about your persona which gives Melanie a sense that you would be a good person to talk to because you relate well to others' ideas. This is true. The intellectual tie between you transcends disagreements and creates understandings.
Your Mars Square Melanie's Mars (orb 1-5 deg)
You don't go about things in the same way. Perhaps one of you is more direct or more circuitous than the other. This can lead to quarrels because you don't always feel like doing the same thing at the same time. This can be a strain on sexual compatibility.
Your Asc. Square Melanie's Saturn (orb 1-5 deg)
This could never be a casual relationship. Melanie may grant you a certain authority while unconsciously resenting the very parenting role Melanie herself is projecting onto you. You, in turn, feel the responsibility and weight of the tie. You'll always know Melanie.
Your MC Square Melanie's Mercury (orb 1-5 deg)
You really admire Melanie's intelligence and way of speaking. There is something about it that you respect. It vibrates with a certain authority for you and you will defer to it. Melanie enjoys sharing new ideas with you. You would work well together.
Your MC Trine Melanie's Sun (orb 1-5 deg)
You admire Melanie and enjoy doing things together. Melanie's natural vitality helps you both to identify and pursue life goals and directions since you share them. This would be a productive professional tie. You wouldn't mind if Melanie played the leader.
Your Venus Sextile Melanie's Neptune (orb 1-5 deg)
There is an almost mystical quality about your relationship that is really quite lovely. That Shangri-la view you share of love and life emerges while enjoying music, sipping a glass of wine or just being close. Together you can create a mysterious ambience.
Your Mars Sextile Melanie's Uranus (orb 1-5 deg)
One thing's for sure: this relationship isn't dull. It may be unpredictable and drive you crazy but Melanie definitely doesn't bore you and can always get a reaction from you. Melanie fascinates you and often gets you to do things you ordinarily don't.
Your Sun does not aspect Melanie's Moon
While you may communicate very well on a rational level, sometimes you may feel as if Melanie doesn't really understand you. You may find Melanie's emotional responses incomprehensible as well. You have to make a special effort to share and connect.
Your Moon does not aspect Melanie's Moon
While you may like and respect each other and understand each other intellectually, there is an emotional distance which might prevent you from being truly at home with or comfortable with each other. You may, at times, find each other's moods or responses puzzling.
Your Mercury does not aspect Melanie's Mercury
You don't think alike. Even if you are in emotional accord, there are times you seriously question if you see the same world since, while your perceptions are not necessarily in conflict, they are so different. Discussions are rarely fruitful or pleasurable.
Your Mercury does not aspect Melanie's Venus
There is something about Melanie's personal style and taste and way of expressing affection which doesn't comfortably merge with your own. It may not exactly lead to war, but it may have delayed the initial attraction. Your philosophies aren't quite in sync.
Your Venus does not aspect Melanie's Venus
While you may be very fond of each other, you're quite dissimilar in some important ways. Your tastes diverge widely and you tend to express love very differently. You don't like the same people and have different interests. You wish Melanie dressed differently.
Melanie's Sun in your 6th house:
It's very important for the success of this relationship that you work together on a project of intense mutual interest. Otherwise, you will find yourself feeling subordinate to Melanie which you won't like much - unless, of course, you enjoy feeling subordinate.
If you are working together on a project of interest, you will grant Melanie the authority role and you will play the helping role - even if the obvious, more official roles are the reverse. Melanie is physically dependent upon you to make sure everything is functioning comfortably and will change personal habits to please you.
Melanie's Moon in your 12th house:
You connect emotionally in a way that's not easy to define. You feel oddly drawn to Melanie but it's not necessarily admiration or sexual attraction. Melanie awakens in you a sense of obligation and has a knack for making you feel guilty without knowing why.
This is someone with whom you can spend a lot of time alone. Perhaps the relationship must be kept secret for some reason. However, at times s/he drains you emotionally and you find this relationship confining if not actually working against your best interests.
Melanie's Mercury in your 7th house:
You have a strong intellectual compatibility and this would be an excellent working or business partnership. You also share many views and communicate your ideas so well to each other that, as a team, you could probably make effective contact with the public.
Your relationship is also interesting with regard to your personal communications. Melanie really understands the most sensible way to approach you and may well be the one person on whom you can test out your new ideas. You know they will be understood.
Melanie's Venus in your 7th house:
There is something special about this person. The unique way of expressing love and affection attracts you to Melanie as a natural partner. You are always affected by physical charm or good looks and Melanie's will always affect you even if not conventionally attractive.
This is a friendship with a special intimacy which will enhance any type of relationship - personal or professional. You have similar values and tastes and enjoy a pleasant sense of being appreciated when you are together. You love and admire Melanie.
Melanie's Mars in your 6th house:
This is someone who probably means well but there is something about the way Melanie works which gets on your nerves perhaps by being too bossy or too demanding. However, it may be that the source of your irritation is not in Melanie, but in you. Some people's energy can feel threatening.
It may be difficult for you to work cooperatively with Melanie because of the feelings of competition between you. If you are not in touch with this, it may manifest in your not feeling very well when you are physically together.
Melanie's Jupiter in your 7th house:
Even if circumstances puts one of you in a subordinate position, Melanie's manner and behavior will equalize the relationship. You are, at the very least, wonderful friends who share many philosophies and views. Melanie also encourages you with other people.
This could be a wonderful partnership - either personal or professional You totally trust each other. Sometimes you can get a bit carried away by Melanie's enthusiasms and be influenced to take a path you ordinarily wouldn't. Still, this relationship has a lot to offer.
Melanie's Saturn in your 9th house:
This person isn't going to let you get away with anything, that's for sure. Melanie has very high standards and the success of this relationship will depend, in part, on the way you both maintain them. Melanie may hold stricter or more traditional moral views.
Your relationship may place certain restrictions upon you with regard to travel. Matters relating to education, philosophy, publications or spiritual matters will be a serious concern of both of you and may require some sacrifice or hard work.
Melanie's Uranus in your 5th house:
One of the reasons you have such a good time together is your relationship keeps taking delightfully unexpected turns. This stimulates eroticism, creativity and the marvelous pleasure which arises out of not knowing what to expect. It can be electrifying.
If you work together, Melanie stimulates your creativity in ways you could not have imagined. Melanie is not undependable but your relationship is erratic in that there are sudden rifts and then times of coming together. Love is expressed unusually and unconventionally.
Melanie's Neptune in your 8th house:
There is such a depth of sharing of spiritual values, it's difficult to remember where your original ideas end and Melanie's begin. You love to share dreams and confidences and it is during those quiet moments that you feel most intimate.
For you, Melanie's sexuality and spirituality are very closely linked which gives rise to a delightful sense of being all alone together on Shangri-la. However, there is something elusive about your relationship. No matter how close you are, Melanie still retains his/her mystery.
Melanie's Pluto in your 6th house:
Even if yours is not exactly a consulting relationship (such as patient therapist, astrologer-client, etc.) Melanie has an extraordinary effect upon your state of mind and important decision you are making about your career. Melanie subtly affects your health.
Any investigative or research project you might work on together would be strikingly successful. Even if you technically occupy the position of authority, the respect you have for Melanie's opinions and perspective is such that there may be a subtle role reversal.
SECTION IV: The Relationship from Melanie's Point of View
Melanie, the following information explains how you view your relationship with Tony, and explores some of the major issues that arise.
Your Sun Conj Tony's Sun (orb < 1 deg)
You enjoy an easy camaraderie and generally feel quite comfortable together. People tend to perceive you as similar types. One of the things you like about each other is your compatibility of goals and the lack of underlying tension in your relationship.
Your Mars Conj Tony's Venus (orb < 1 deg)
The sexual energy between the two of you was immediate and powerful from the first meeting. This could never be an entirely platonic relationship. If you are not lovers, you will be confidantes and love and sex will be your favorite topics of conversation.
Your MC Oppos Tony's Mercury (orb < 1 deg)
You really admire Tony's intelligence and way of speaking. There is something about it that you respect. It vibrates with a certain authority for you and you will defer to it. Tony enjoys sharing new ideas with you. You would work well together.
Your Venus Square Tony's MC (orb < 1 deg)
We all have fantasies about the sort of person who would be an ideal partner. When you first met Tony, it was like a recognition. You felt oddly at home with someone you idealized. Happily, Tony reciprocates these feelings.
Your Sun Conj Tony's Uranus (orb 1-5 deg)
You were attracted from the very first meeting. You felt, on one hand, that you completely understood Tony and, on the other, that you never knew what to expect next. You admire Tony's originality. It taps into a uniqueness of your own.
Your Mars Conj Tony's Pluto (orb 1-5 deg)
Your connection is intensely erotic and compulsive. Tony's personal magnetism both intrigues you and stimulates you to be at your productive best. Your energy may initiate major transforming changes in Tony whose charisma empowers you.
Your Mercury Oppos Tony's Asc. (orb 1-5 deg)
Sharing ideas is a very important element of your relationship. From the beginning, you sensed Tony was someone you could talk to, who would understand you and, even when you disagreed, would provide a good sounding board for pet theories or business schemes.
Your Mercury Square Tony's MC (orb 1-5 deg)
This would be a very good working relationship. You connect very strongly with Tony's goals and ambitions and can, through your communication skills, work together to attain them. Tony respects your intelligence and opinions and will frequently defer to your judgment.
Your Mars Square Tony's Mars (orb 1-5 deg)
You don't go about things in the same way. Perhaps one of you is more direct or more circuitous than the other. This can lead to quarrels because you don't always feel like doing the same thing at the same time. This can be a strain on sexual compatibility.
Your Asc. Square Tony's Uranus (orb 1-5 deg)
You responded to Tony's magnetism from the first time you met. You find it interesting and unusual. Tony enjoys being with you because you respond to uniqueness. You don't like not being able to depend on someone and often find Tony's behavior unpredictable.
Your Sun Trine Tony's MC (orb 1-5 deg)
You may have initially been more influenced by Tony's public image than more intimate persona. Tony appears to admire you greatly and you respond to that by taking a great interest in the goals and ambitions to which both of you aspire.
Your Mercury Trine Tony's Saturn (orb 1-5 deg)
Tony doesn't encourage you to take chances and, since you've been together, you rarely do. On some level, Tony is your teacher and helps you to structure and organize your ideas. Whatever your current status, you defer to Tony's authority.
Your Moon SemiSqr Tony's Jupiter (orb 1-5 deg)
There is something about Tony's basic philosophy or world view which throws you somewhat off-center emotionally. You may often find yourself caught up by Tony's enthusiasm or going along with things which are not truly representative of your own feelings.
Your Mars Sesqu. Tony's Saturn (orb 1-5 deg)
On one level Tony fascinates you and motivates you to be the best that you can be. On another, there is something about Tony which pressures you somehow and can lead to resentment. If this is not dealt with openly, it can inhibit sexual responsiveness.
Your Sun Quincunx Tony's Saturn (orb 1-5 deg)
Your connection with Tony is strangely bonding. If you are willing to submit to the restrictions and responsibilities this relationship imposes, it will be a lifetime tie which will improve with time. This can never be a casual relationship.
Your Sun does not aspect Tony's Moon
While you may communicate very well on a rational level, sometimes you may feel as if Tony doesn't really understand you. You may find Tony's emotional responses incomprehensible as well. You have to make a special effort to share and connect.
Your Moon does not aspect Tony's Moon
While you may like and respect each other and understand each other intellectually, there is an emotional distance which might prevent you from being truly at home with or comfortable with each other. You may, at times, find each other's moods or responses puzzling.
Your Mercury does not aspect Tony's Mercury
You don't think alike. Even if you are in emotional accord, there are times you seriously question if you see the same world since, while your perceptions are not necessarily in conflict, they are so different. Discussions are rarely fruitful or pleasurable.
Your Mercury does not aspect Tony's Venus
There is something about Tony's personal style and taste and way of expressing affection which doesn't comfortably merge with your own. It may not exactly lead to war, but it may have delayed the initial attraction. Your philosophies aren't quite in sync.
Your Venus does not aspect Tony's Venus
While you may be very fond of each other, you're quite dissimilar in some important ways. Your tastes diverge widely and you tend to express love very differently. You don't like the same people and have different interests. You wish Tony dressed differently.
Tony's Sun in your 3rd house:
Initially, your attraction to Tony was intellectual. Possibly you met at a lecture or in an educational setting where the emphasis was on the sharing of ideas. Your relationship has always been marked by long talks. You might also travel well together.
Shared communications are important to both of you. Together you might be involved in a writing or teaching project. Your contacts will be on a regular, daily basis. However, separations eased by frequent letters and phone calls tend to be especially bonding.
Tony's Moon in your 11th house:
Your emotional tie may have initially blossomed in a group situation where you share both friends and interests. Tony's emotional qualities instantly conveyed that this was a friend whom you could trust. You admire sensitivity and perceptiveness.
Tony appears to intuitively understand your goals, particularly those which transcend your individual concerns. You share social and political views. A close involvement with a group of friends deepens your bond. This is essentially a beautiful friendship.
Tony's Mercury in your 3rd house:
The two of you really connect intellectually. Tony's ideas are so stimulating to your own thinking processes that you may be motivated to develop them further through writing, lecturing or teaching. Your relationship centers on intense mutual interests.
It is very likely that you met at a lecture, in an educational setting or through a writing project you were both involved in. No doubt the strong common interests you share extend into your professional lives. You spend a great deal of time together.
Tony's Venus in your 4th house:
During the early stages of your relationship, you enjoyed having Tony in your home and Tony enjoyed being there. Even if yours is a working relationship, it benefits from a more personal association. You're happy with each other and could live together.
The special intimacy which marks your relationship brings back the best and warmest aspects of your home life when you were a child. Tony seems to be drawn to a quality you may not reveal to many people and even helps you to develop this hidden quality.
Tony's Mars in your 1st house:
Tony's energy really affects you. It can stimulate in you tremendous enthusiasm, competitiveness, irritation or sexual desire. Certainly you are neither placid nor indifferent when you are together. If you were, Tony might decide to stir things up.
It would be a good thing for your relationship if you were physically active together. If circumstances prevent this, the energy could become destructive and manifest in quarreling or competitiveness. If it manifested in aggressiveness, it might be that Tony is a bit afraid of you.
Tony's Jupiter in your 8th house:
This relationship has a lot of fascinating possibilities. First of all, when Tony is around you find yourself more aware of your sexuality - and Tony's! This would be true even if your relationship is not a sexual one. You share mystical and spiritual ideas.
This would also be an excellent business relationship. The two of you intuitively sense what would be of marketable interest to others and, together, you could implement your ideas. You tap into Tony's talents which is financially remunerative to you both.
Tony's Saturn in your 8th house:
It would be better if this was a friendship or business relationship. There could be difficulties if it were more intimate or sexual. Of course, things can be worked out. The problem has to do with trust. You're a little afraid to be vulnerable to Tony.
You have a strong sense of responsibility for Tony's financial situation. If you don't actually wind up paying the bills, you are certainly concerned about the expenses. Tony's lack of funds or judgment might reduce your own business prospects.
Tony's Uranus in your 4th house:
If you live together, your home is certainly not very conventional. Your schedules don't conform to other people's and your living quarters may be the center for advanced, non-traditional, new-age ideas. You live very differently from the way you grew up.
Your connection with Tony marked a radical departure from your former life style. Living together turned out to be a liberating experience. It is important that you maintain your own individual interests as well as Tony's or your life is unstable.
Tony's Neptune in your 6th house:
This would only be a good working relationship if your project involved something artistic or spiritual. Since you are often so in tune with each other, you can communicate shared ideas almost without speaking which can make for a wonderful collaboration.
However, if you are working on something more practical which requires clear and precise communication, confusion arises which, at times, could sabotage your results and have a negative effect upon your relationship -- especially if you felt Tony was being irresponsible.
Tony's Pluto in your 4th house:
This relationship may have caused some intense conflict in your family. Tony is very different from the people with whom you grew up and while this differentness might seem interesting or exotic to you, it is threatening to the other members of your family.
In addition, some of the circumstances surrounding this relationship might lead to or necessitate a major change of residence. This can be complicated since your life styles have been so different to begin with. Naturally, the one who has to adapt is you.
New Age Jewelry
by cosmic artist
David Weitzman
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