Astrologer: Pemo Theodore
Star*Mate Composite Report for
Brad Pitt
and
Angelina Jolie
Birth Data for Brad:
Brad Pitt December 18, 1963 6:31 AM Shawnee, Oklahoma
Birth Data for Angelina:
Angelina Jolie June 4, 1975 9:09 AM Los Angeles, California
This interpretation is based on the composite chart and planetary positions at birth. For astrology students, these and other technical information, are listed below:
Brad: Angelina: Composite:
Sun 25 Sag 52 13 Gem 25 19 Pis 39
Moon 22 Cap 50 13 Ari 05 2 Pis 57
Mercury 16 Cap 07 22 Gem 20 4 Ari 13
Venus 23 Cap 28 28 Can 09 25 Lib 49
Mars 10 Cap 02 10 Ari 42 25 Aqu 22
Jupiter 9 Ari 50 17 Ari 25 13 Ari 38
Saturn 19 Aqu 09 17 Can 23 3 Tau 16
Uranus 10 Vir 04 28 Lib 48 4 Lib 26
Neptune 16 Sco 48 10 Sag 20 28 Sco 34
Pluto 14 Vir 14 6 Lib 31 25 Vir 23
True Node 11 Can 10 0 Sag 53 21 Vir 02
Asc. 11 Sag 54 28 Can 54 6 Lib 52
MC 26 Vir 59 17 Ari 53 6 Can 52
Chiron 10 Pis 35 26 Ari 46 3 Ari 40
Ceres 0 Sag 24 12 Tau 02 21 Aqu 13
Juno 16 Sco 51 17 Gem 37 2 Vir 14
Vesta 22 Sag 31 21 Pis 39 7 Aqu 05
Psyche 23 Sag 55 9 Tau 51 1 Pis 53
Sappho 14 Vir 04 18 Lib 19 1 Lib 11
Eros 20 Aqu 32 27 Vir 32 9 Sag 02
Cupido 25 Aqu 21 20 Leo 14 22 Tau 48
Amor 26 Leo 32 19 Pis 19 7 Gem 55
Aphrodite 12 Vir 17 7 Lib 09 24 Vir 43
True Lilith 7 Sag 39 9 Pis 40 23 Cap 40
1st house cusp 11 Sag 54 28 Can 54 6 Lib 52
2nd house cusp 11 Cap 54 28 Leo 54 6 Sco 52
3rd house cusp 11 Aqu 54 28 Vir 54 6 Sag 52
4th house cusp 11 Pis 54 28 Lib 54 6 Cap 52
5th house cusp 11 Ari 54 28 Sco 54 6 Aqu 52
6th house cusp 11 Tau 54 28 Sag 54 6 Pis 52
7th house cusp 11 Gem 54 28 Cap 54 6 Ari 52
8th house cusp 11 Can 54 28 Aqu 54 6 Tau 52
9th house cusp 11 Leo 54 28 Pis 54 6 Gem 52
10th house cusp 11 Vir 54 28 Ari 54 6 Can 52
11th house cusp 11 Lib 54 28 Tau 54 6 Leo 52
12th house cusp 11 Sco 54 28 Gem 54 6 Vir 52
Note: True Lilith is the true apogee of the Moon, also known as Black Moon Lilith
Brad: Tropical EQUAL, GMT: 12:31:00, 35 N 19 38 96 W 55 30
Angelina: Tropical EQUAL, GMT: 16:09:00, 34 N 03 08 118 W 14 34
Aspects and orbs:
Conj : 8 Deg 00 Min Trine : 5 Deg 00 Min Quncnx : 2 Deg 00 Min
Opp : 8 Deg 00 Min Sextile: 2 Deg 00 Min SemiSqr: 2 Deg 00 Min
Square: 5 Deg 00 Min SemiSxt: 2 Deg 00 Min Sesqu : 2 Deg 00 Min
Note: The composite house cusp calculations are based on the latitude of 33 N 17 45
Introduction
"The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed." Carl Jung
When we enter into a relationship with another person, we become a part of something greater than ourselves, the relationship. We are lifted out of ourselves. And it is through relationship, that we can truly see who we are as individuals, both the light and dark. So it is where it is most possible to develop personally, professionally and spiritually.
Astrology, derived from the Ancient Greek word astrologia meaning "telling of the stars," affords us information that usually remains hidden. Having a clear overview and understanding can empower us to achieve harmony and wholeness through a relationship and guide us through any troubled or dangerous waters. The composite (or relationship) chart can tell us what a relationship looks like inside, where we meet and where we don't. It shows us what experiences are possible together, what is easy or difficult. The composite chart will reveal the pattern and magic of a relationship when people come together. It is special and unique, just as the individuals who are relating, and ceases to exist when they are no longer together.
We long to participate in the magic and upliftment of relationship and we want to avoid the challenges and fears that it also brings. With the blueprint of our relationship in hand, we can gain and apply antidotes to the pains of relationship & celebrate more consciously the delights. Sometimes this means we can grow a common garden variety relationship into an exotic flower that can be appreciated and benefit all, including ourselves. And sometimes it precludes anything happening at all except the chaos of weeds. The choice all depends on the individuals involved, their goals, values and focus and what they do with the blueprint.
There is also a Mystery at the heart of every relationship that is not even revealed by the 'telling' of astrology. This is the uncharted territory of which even astrology can only allude to as Love or Fate.
These are the strengths and limitations of the composite chart and this interpretation attempts to empower you both with the blueprint and tools to guide your way in your relationship.
"The ritual of marriage is not simply a social event; it is a crossing of threads in the fabric of fate. Many strands bring the couple and their families together and spin their lives into a fabric that is woven on their children." Portuguese-Jewish Wedding Ceremony.
Copyright 2006 Pemo Theodore
Chapter 1: Important Issues and Themes in your Relationship
"Intimate relationships cannot substitute for a life plan. But to have any meaning or viability at all, a life plan must include intimate relationships." Harriet Lerner
Every relationship is as individual, as are its participants! This chapter looks at the very bedrock of your relationship and identifies what your potential is when you are together. Each relationship has issues that need to be dealt with on an ongoing basis and different ways of dealing with them. There are also certain areas of life within which individuals find themselves when they are together. If the essence of a relationship is healthy and positive, there is nothing that you cannot accomplish in life and then the relationship is self-renewing and fulfilling. It is important to identify what in essence you have together that you can then build on. Then everything else is bonus!
Sixth/Twelfth House Emphasis in Composite Chart (4 or more planets):
Unfortunately there are challenges in this relationship as regards equality between you. However if you have come together to help each other and others outside the relationship, then that will be a positive outlet. One of you may be incapacitated in some way, whether physically or emotionally so then the need for support is integral and should provide a source of strength. However if you are looking for a relationship of equals then this is not for you. This would be a good relationship for employer and employee, or a service related relationship.
Sun in 6th or 12th house in composite chart:
Unfortunately it may be difficult to have an equal basis between you in this relationship. One of you may be involved in helping the other, for some reason and if so then this is should serve you both well. However even in this case, the person that is serving the other would need to be monitoring their own needs and making sure that they fulfill them, by other means. One person may have to suppress their own ego to keep this relationship going and obviously that cannot usually happen on a long term basis. If this is a relationship between an employee and employer or guru and student then this dynamic would be more appropriate and less difficult. However other positive factors would need to be present in the chart to make this sustainable for both parties long term. Whichever person appears to be the more active partner may identify much more with the helping and sacrificing strength, when you are together.
Moon in 5th or 11th house in composite chart:
This relationship will have a lot of heartfelt feelings. You will care about yourselves, others and any creative ventures that arise from the relationship. There is a childlike quality to the feelings that are engendered and therefore you may find it easy to play, have fun and be entertained by each other. It is easy in this relationship to stay connected to your hearts' desires and this will keep the relationship at its best. Whichever person appears to be the more receptive partner may identify much more with the strong feelings of love, joy and playfulness, when you are together.
Sun Opposition Pluto:
You are involved with each other intensely and that can trigger off huge change you and others. It is important that consciousness is brought to bear here so that you don't degenerate to manipulation of each other or those connected to you. Whichever person appears to be the more active partner may identify much more with this obsession and intensity, when you are together.
Sun Semisquare Saturn:
Your stability will be in conflict with this relationship's purpose. You will need to act to resolve any stalemates. Whichever person appears to be the more active partner may identify much more with this struggle, when you are together.
Moon Conjunct Mars:
You feel comfortable with the emotional passion and energy in this relationship. You tend to be emotionally spontaneous with each other and this could be an intense sexual relationship. Whichever person appears to be the more receptive partner may identify much more with this emotional passion when you are together.
Moon Square Neptune:
You may find yourselves emotionally confused or disappointed by the lack of boundary keeping within this relationship. It is important that you have some physical time apart to help clarify who you are as individuals. It is also important to communicate your feelings clearly and listen to each other, do not automatically think you know what the other wants. Whichever person appears to be the more receptive partner may identify much more with this lack of personal boundaries, when you are together.
Moon Sextile Saturn:
You have opportunities for building stability and trust into your personal relationship. Family and friends may assist you in feeling secure with each other. Whichever person appears to be the more receptive partner may identify much more with the feeling of emotional security, when you are together.
Moon Semisextile Mercury:
You are able to talk together as you both value communication and understanding each other's viewpoint. You are also aware of what motivates each other's feelings and how that can affect what you say to each other. Whichever person appears to be the more receptive partner may identify much more with the ease of communication, when you are together.
Moon Semisextile Chiron:
You feel instinctively comfortable with each other as you both value expressing your personal vulnerabilities. You also understand what motivates each other's emotional insecurities. Whichever person appears to be the more receptive partner may identify much more with this instinctive comfort, when you are together.
Moon Quincunx Uranus:
You will experience challenges in maintaining your individual freedom while still feeling comfortable emotionally. You will need to be creative about developing this relationship in its own form to make sure that both parties have enough individual space and enough relating. Whichever person appears to be the more receptive partner may identify much more with the challenge of finding a balancing between closeness and aloneness, when you are together.
Chapter 2: How You Complement One Another
"Passion makes the world go round. Love just makes it a safer place." Ice T, The Ice Opinion
It feels like a kind of magic when people are attracted to each other, about which we can only wonder. If it is not there, we are not drawn to continue connecting with each other. Depending on the strength and quality of this attraction it is easy, delightful or compulsive to connect. When we are in a long term relationship with someone it provides a pull that brings us back together through more difficult times. It is the desire adhesive that sticks us together; otherwise we would easily drift away from each other due to all the pressures of modern life. This magnetism, lack of it or repulsion is the subtle energy that binds us, or not, in relationship with others. That attraction can comprise of sexual desire, physical appreciation and feelings of love and warmth that are easily accessible. It helps us make the compromises that are necessary in any partnership and encourages our collaborating and co-operating with one another. As a result it is an extremely important factor in the fate and enjoyment of any kind of relationship.
Venus in 1st or 7th house in composite chart:
This is a loving romantic partnership and you enjoy being together. You feel a harmony and joy in this relationship, which can also touch others. You feel happier being together than apart. You may also be a role model for others for a loving relationship. Because you care for each other, you will try to make each other happy whilst together.
Mars in 5th or 11th house in composite chart:
You will be passionate in your sexual expression and may be actively involved in some creative work together. You love to have fun, play sports, pursue entertainment or just do things together. The joy of this relationship is in the activities that you share and you need dynamic and physical expression of the love you share together. There is a lightness in your physical expression of energy and sexuality.
Venus Opposition Saturn:
You have a committed love for each other but may find the relationship or your partner very controlling. There may be a swinging back and forth in how much value you both put on the stability and security being together. You can certainly stay together for a long time and at least long enough to learn lessons from this relationship. However at times, your sense of joy and fulfillment in love may be seriously curtailed. You may also struggle at times with the lack of spontaneity between you both or your spontaneous expression of love may be mismatched and your partner not receptive when you are and vice versa.
Venus Trine Mars:
Your love and passion flow easily together and you may take it for granted a bit. However this is a wonderful link within a relationship and gives a lot of romantic & passionate energy in being together. Your sexual expression naturally flows with your love and is easily regenerated. You just fire each other up! This also works well for any kind of work you do together, you just love being together.
Venus Semisextile Pluto:
You easily deeply love each other and value the transformative aspect of that love. You are also aware of what motivates you both in your desires and need for empowerment. As a result you are able to keep the profundity and intensity of your love alive.
Mars Square Neptune:
Your energies within this relationship may tend to be leached from their original output by your imagination and sensitivity to your partner. This applies to your sexual and physical energy for work and projects you are both involved in. By identifying what your needs are independently and then coming back together with that clarity, some compromise may be reached that will have a conscious intent to benefit both. There may be a conflict between where you both want to put your energies whilst together, as in spiritual or compassionate work or highly imaginative creative work.
Mars Quincunx Pluto:
You may find it difficult to handle the intensity of the sexual and physical side of this relationship. You will need to find a creative balance between asserting your will and desires and regenerating and renewing your energies between you.
Asc. Conjunct Uranus:
This is a very individual and free relationship that needs to be created with the context of both partners. You need a lot of space and freedom to explore the world as well as each other for this relationship to work well. You were drawn to each other magnetically and suddenly. However if you do not maintain a sense of your own individuality whilst relating, it is likely to finish as suddenly.
Asc. Opposition Mercury:
There is a very strong focus on communication and ideas in this partnership. You may find a comrade-in-arms type of relationship develop between you. You share each other's thoughts and are able to listen to each other. You both appreciate movement and any sort of boredom would be anathema to the relationship. Networking with others may also be an important aspect of this relationship.
Asc. Opposition Jupiter:
This relationship will feel as if blessed by heaven and you are incredibly optimistic and positive about life when together. You may share similar interests in personal development, social or learning values and they may be the strongest focus of the relationship. Those around you will be blessed by your bountiful generosity and optimism as well. This would be a very good marriage!
Asc. Opposition Chiron:
This is an incredibly strong instinctually binding relationship. You will feel a pull towards each other and will be able to heal past relationship wounds together. They will emerge readily when you relate but the capacity for healing them will also be there. You should both gain a lot of learning about yourselves and the relationship and may also share this philosophy and help to others around you.
MC Square Mercury:
This relationship, although significant will experience challenges to its core from your ideas and communications. Your individual ideas may differ from the collaborative ideas that support relationship and your styles of communicating may be different so that it is difficult to understand each other. You will need to work at keeping balance between your individual ideas and styles of communicating with a more collaborative manner to serve the relationship and this should make for a healthy relationship. Listening will be a good start!
MC Square Uranus:
This relationship, although significant will experience challenges to its core from your individual needs for freedom and independence! There may be a conflict with how much space and freedom you want as individuals and what maintains the intimacy of the relating. You will need to keep a balance between independence and intimacy needs and this should make for a healthy relationship.
MC Square Chiron:
This relationship, although significant will experience challenges to its core from your instinctual responses. There may be conflict with the past relationship wounds that the connection brings up within you. You will need to keep a balance between your instinctual responses and attitudes and the wholeness of the relationship and this should make for a healthy relationship.
MC Trine Moon:
This is a significant relationship as your sense of comfort and feeling flows easily with the integrity and core of the relationship. You experience harmony just being together and could easily live together. Whichever person appears to be the more receptive partner may identify much more with this ease and comfort with the integrity of the relationship, when you are together.
Chapter 3: How You Communicate
"Listen. Do not have an opinion while you listen because frankly, your opinion doesn't hold much water outside of Your Universe. Just listen. Listen until their brain has been twisted like a dripping towel and what they have to say is all over the floor." Hugh Elliott, Standing Room Only weblog, 02-14-2003
"When in doubt, tell the truth." Mark Twain (1835 - 1910)
The bridge that links us as individuals and saves us from our isolation is communication and so it is a key piece to any relationship. The good news is that anyone can learn communication skills if they are interested in bridging that gap. One of the main skills is listening, and of course we can listen not only with our ears but on all levels. And the other key skill is truth telling. These two basic keys are the best foundation for any kind of good relationship and guarantee that you can continue to grow and develop together.
In some relationships we easily develop good communication patterns but in others there are inherent stresses or resistances to healthy sharing on this level. We then have to work harder to maintain optimum communication levels. So when starting any new relationship, it would bode us well if we are initially challenged, to be realistic about how much effort will need to be expended in developing consciousness and healthy habits for the future relationship. Then we can choose whether this is worthy of our effort or not.
Be forewarned that the largest common cause of relationship breakdown is when there is a breakdown in communication. Then the bridge that everything else must cross to link us has fallen into the crevasse between us. Bringing consciousness to this area in all your relationships will pay off dividends with healthy, happy and flourishing connections with others.
Mercury in 6th or 12th house in composite chart:
Your ideas and communications are geared to how to serve each other and address issues of work. You like to organize your daily routines and habits and possibly focus on issues of health and discipline. This is a very functional position and attention to all the details will ensure that plans go smoothly. However you may also need to lighten the tone occasionally, as too much focus on this area can become boring and pedantic for any type of relationship. One difficulty to this position is that due to the inequality of your ideas there may be a tendency not to be frank or honest with each other and that can be as harmful long term as not listening to each other. If you are involved in helping someone or work together, then this is a wonderful position to ensure that everything works well.
Mercury Conjunct Chiron:
Your ideas can come from a very instinctive level and you are able to discuss and think about basic issues that result from the relationship. Old communication wounds from past relationships may surface to be addressed and healed together. Human vulnerabilities are the focus and topic of your conversations and together you have the potential to bridge the gap between minds and bodies. There will be a deep sense of meaning that can also result from your conversations and sharing of ideas together.
Mercury Opposition Uranus:
Your ideas and communication styles may tend to swing backwards and forwards from relationship oriented to independent and freedom oriented. You may find that one or both of you may identify with either end of this polarity. Generally your focus is on the overview of any situation and the ultimate truth and so this connection can promote enlightening & stimulating thoughts and conversations. You may need to bring some human empathy to this position to soften any hard truths that may spontaneously erupt from you both.
Mercury Semisextile Saturn:
You value the stability and reliability of your ideas and communications that you share. You are also aware of what motivates your commitment with those. You can therefore plan and organize sharing of your serious thoughts and responsibilities.
Chapter 4: Challenges to Relating
"I love being married. It's so great to find that one special person you want to annoy for the rest of your life." Rita Rudner
In some cases the challenges to relating are easily transformed and then integrated and in others they feel more like stumbling towards the eventual collapse of the relationship! Challenges in life can be important to help us remain conscious in our participation with each other, rather than falling into a state of unconscious participation that allows our complexes full expression! However there is a middle line, a relationship cannot be all about work, but needs an element of relaxation so that we can rest and restore ourselves whilst together. If this place of refuge is not available then we cannot and will not persist with the development of a mature relationship. So it is important that any relationship is not overburdened with challenges and lacking any ease, joy and fun.
There are many kinds of challenges within relationships; these occur mainly in the areas of communication, sexuality, finances, security and trust to name just a few. All these challenges can be alleviated and bridged through clear communication. Trust can be established if you know that both parties are committed to growing the relationship. That is the foundation underneath any relationship, the willingness to go the distance through good times or bad, so that when life intervenes to 'spoil our fun' we have tools and a sense of perseverance to persist.
It is up to the individuals whether the challenges within their relationships are workable and ultimately elevating or whether they are more trouble than they are worth.
Saturn in 1st or 7th house in composite chart:
This is a strongly committed relationship and there is a sense of duty towards each other and to being together. You may feel instantly committed to being together and find 'all exits blocked'. There is definitely a strong desire for structure and foundation within this partnership and roles need to be identified clearly, whether this is a business partnership or marriage. You need to be careful to make sure that you don't overburden yourselves with responsibilities or duties. There are definitely issues as regards partnership that need to be worked on and developed together. This is the underlying purpose to stay together for a certain period of time. Be careful that fear isn't the underlying theme that binds you together, to the sacrifice of more fulfilling reasons.
Saturn Semisextile Chiron:
Accepting and healing past relationship wounds that are exposed and the commitment within the relationship work together. You hold a high value on both. You are also in touch with what motivates your healing and trust.
Saturn Quincunx Uranus:
You may find it difficult to give each other freedom and independence within the structure of this relationship. You will need to find a creative balance between your need for safety and your needs for independent movement.
North Node in 6th or 12th house in composite chart:
You will be drawn to each other for service, healing or spiritual purposes. There is a fateful quality to the inequality that you will experience together. Within the context of this work, you will discover the areas that need to be developed or worked upon as individuals within this relationship. These lessons will tend to be focused on service, health and spiritual matters.
True Node Conjunct Pluto:
You will feel fatefully and compulsively drawn to each other. There is a quality of compulsion about being together and empowerment issues may surface. Within the context of this powerful connection, you will discover the areas that need to be developed or worked upon as individuals within this relationship. These lessons will tend to be focused on power, sexuality, compulsion and control.
True Node Opposition Sun:
You will feel as if you are meant to be together and that the relationship is your main focus. You can work together and will be as a functioning whole relationship. Within the context of the relationship purpose, you will discover the areas that need to be developed or worked upon as individuals within this relationship. These lessons will tend to be focused on the essence of relating and how are as a couple in the world. Whichever person appears to be the more active partner, may identify much more with this fateful feeling of purpose, when you are together.
Black Moon Lilith in 4th or 10th house in composite chart:
This relationship has a deep soulful connection to its very foundation. You will identify with roles building together your personal lives or business. However you will tend to be very individual and creative within those roles. This relationship although significant as regards home, family or work, definitely does not follow the status quo in those areas. You will experience very profound feelings that can be very nourishing for your soul. However you must surrender to the wild flow of feeling connection that tends to leak out over the normal edges of what is acceptable. You may feel that your relationship stems from or is bound up in family or genes, so that it is greater than yourselves personally. Acceptance of your individual feelings is the key to happiness here.
True Lilith Square Venus:
You may have a conflict between your desires and attraction for each other and the deep emotions and sexuality that are released from being together. You may find that these more unconscious feelings disturb your aesthetic senses and harmony and need to be accepted and integrated. It is important to work towards acceptance of these more unconscious emotions and sexuality, if it is a high value to have that depth within the relationship. Repressing these feelings will only prove disruptive to the relationship.
True Lilith Trine Pluto:
You may take it for granted how easily your empowerment flows with the deep emotions and sexuality that surface within the relationship. Your needs for change and transformation integrate smoothly with this level that is normally unconscious. It is easy to accept and integrate, so that you are capable of intimacy together on a profound, soulful level.
True Lilith Trine True Node:
You may take it for granted how easily you integrate the destiny of the relationship with the deep emotions and sexuality that surface within the relationship. Your fate together integrates easily together with this level that is normally unconscious. It is easy to accept and integrate, so that your destiny is on a profound, soulful level.
True Lilith Semisextile Mars:
You are easily able to energise each other from a deep emotional and sexual level and are aware of what motivates you both in this profound soul instinctual dimension.
Chapter 5: Background of the Relationship
"My mother used to say that there are no strangers, only friends you haven't met yet. She's now in a maximum security twilight home in Australia." Dame Edna Everage (1934)
"Nobody sees a flower - really - it is so small it takes time - we haven't time - and to see takes time, like to have a friend takes time." Georgia O'Keeffe (1887 - 1986)
"Don't accept rides from strange men, and remember that all men are strange." Robin Morgan
We have many different types of relationships. These days we have the luxury of being able to be very creative with all our relationships and can work together to make them suit us as individuals. We have grown beyond automatically relating from predetermined roles. This is truly wonderful as it has the great advantage that we then are challenged to stay conscious whilst we interact with each other.
It is important in any kind of relationship to have friendship as the underlying foundation. The origins of the word friend come from the Old English word "freond" which meant "to love, to favor" and is related to the Old English word "freo" which meant "free". This is a clue as to how to make all our relationships successful, to honor each other"s freedom as individuals and to love each other. This can be applied to all business and personal relationships if we want to achieve the highest expression of potential between others.
Jupiter in 1st or 7th house in composite chart:
This is a highly beneficial relationship as your involvement together really expands your horizons. There is a quality of enthusiasm in this partnership in that it boosts your confidence as a couple. You have a strong sense of meaning and belief in being together. You feel blessed to be in this partnership and tend to share that with those around you. There may a strong social context to this relationship so that it is inherent that you will benefit others by being together.
Chiron in 6th or 12th house in composite chart:
This relationship brings up vulnerabilities from past relationship wounds, as regards work, service and healing. This relationship may have a very strong focus on accepting and integrating the very physical vulnerabilities that are exposed as part of your human condition. This is an unequal relationship and the service that you have been brought together to do, may provide both the vulnerability and then the acceptance and wholeness that results.
Uranus in 6th or 12th house in composite chart:
This relationship will focus on individual work, service and healing together. You both may be involved in altruistic work together and that would be a very positive use. You may also be focused on alternate healing together and any inequality that is indicated by this position can be challenged by more positive manifestations such as these. This relationship will not be routine and mundane patterns will not survive whilst together. Humanitarian concerns as regards your spiritual path may also be very important.
Neptune in 2nd or 8th house in composite chart:
The relationship's values will be focused more on ideals and the subtle connection between you. The intuition and empathy that you share will be the foundation that you build your trust and safety upon within this relationship. However you will need to be careful that material security issues are not avoided in favor of the spiritual. Both will need to be incorporated in some way. There may be a sense of insecurity if you are not clear and honest with one another, and it is also important that you are supportive rather than undermining.
Pluto in 6th or 12th house in composite chart:
This relationship has a fated sense of service that could profoundly change your lives. There is a need however to be very careful of the inequality and possibly imbalance of power, that exists within this relationship and not to misuse power in any way. It will be important to focus your attention on the love you share, rather than resort to control or manipulation of each other, or those around you. You can receive profound healing through this relationship and so it is important to empower each other. Of course there are some relationships where we are brought together to help and empower each other, and this would be a positive manifestation.
Jupiter Sesquiquadrate Neptune:
There will be underlying stress between your soul connection and sense of meaning when you are together Others may appear to trigger this; however you will have to resolve it by developing and growing personally without losing your compassion.
Chiron Opposition Uranus:
There may be a tendency to swing back and forth between accepting your vulnerabilities and independence and freedom. You may experience a tension between your needs to be free and for acceptance of past relationship wounds that emerge when you are together. This may be triggered in others when you are together. You have great healing capacity through your appreciation of the truth as you experience it as a couple.
Ceres in 5th or 11th house in composite chart:
This relationship has a strong caring focus for creative projects or children. You are able to nourish from a deep well within your hearts, and your hearts are certainly pivotal in how you care for each other and others. You look after yourselves by having fun, through entertainment or sports or just through the sheer joy of Love. This could certainly be a very fulfilling, great Love! However if this love together is threatened, then you will experience the opposite face of devastation and loss. This will be a heart-breaking loss!
Juno in 5th or 11th house in composite chart:
This relationship has clearly defined roles within the love you share, there is a real comrade in arms quality to the relationship. You may also be involved in creative projects or children which will require some sort of control. Most relationships need some kind of structure to afford reliability and to build trust. However the heart requires passion and creative expression as well. It is important not to resort to game playing and deception. It is human nature to "want to have it all", much better to be honest and build this into your roles together.
Vesta in 5th or 11th house in composite chart:
This relationship may have a slightly ritualistic basis where your love for each other may almost feel holy! You have a reverence for the sexual aspect of your relationship and will work hard to achieve your goals creatively. You may find it challenging to have to work as regards your heart's desires. Be careful not to distract yourselves with work and service when matters of the heart may need to be addressed with love and/or passion.
Psyche in 5th or 11th house in composite chart:
This relationship is focused on spiritually integrating your heart's desires and "inner child" with your love and sexual relationship. Any vulnerable issues around creativity, children, fun, entertainment and sport that surface will be brought to consciousness. Within this relationship you have real sensitivity towards each other and a potential of psychic integration of the heart challenges you face individually. There is a great sense of meaning in being together that feeds your soul on a higher level.
Sappho in 6th or 12th house in composite chart:
Work and service are the focus of your passionate romantic and sexual attraction. You have deep value for each and the work or health issues you share. You will be creative, if not poetic in how you serve each other and those around you. The only difficulty here is that this is not a relationship of equals so it may be important whoever is in service, get their needs met in creative ways outside the relationship. Then this will not be undermining to the relationship. As a couple you possibly support others in preparation for the challenges of formalizing partnerships through marriage or some other official bond.
Eros in 3rd or 9th house in composite chart:
You focus your thinking and communicating on your erotic connection together. You have sex and passion on your minds and can turn each other by "dirty talk" or fantasies. You may be involved in writing, speaking, publishing or media work about erotic love or the erotic love you share. Sexual passion is in your creative expression and breathes life into the relationship through your minds.
Cupido in 2nd or 8th house in composite chart:
This relationship is focused on building trust and security on the physical attraction and chemistry that you have together. You both value each other's physical beauty and this is an important factor in your sexual relationship. Your security is built on your attractiveness as a couple. You need to be careful to not be caught too much in the superficial look of the relationship. It is also important to attend to the heart of your love and care for each other.
Amor in 3rd or 9th house in composite chart:
In this relationship your thinking and communicating will be focused on the unconditional love that you share and how to develop that together. You may talk about the ideal aspects of loving each other and the boundaries between you that contribute to loving each other. You may also become involved in speaking, lecturing, writing, publishing and media that is focused on ideal love in relationships. You like to learn how to keep the love flowing so you would be able to teach each other and those around you. This could be a very creative, even poetic relationship.
Aphrodite in 6th or 12th house in composite chart:
The fated quality to your love has brought you both together for work, service or health issues. Your work may also involve art and beauty. There is a special magic that draws you together for these purposes, however you this is not an equal fated relationship. One of you may feel drawn by love to help your partner, and obviously this is appropriate for some kinds of relationships. However if this is the case, it would serve you well to make sure that your needs are served outside the relationship due to the inequality.
Ceres Conjunct Mars:
You care for and support each other through activity, sexual expression and work in this serious relationship. You like to action your care and promote a feeling of abundance when your needs are expressed. You may feed or care for each other as a way to turn each other on and promote sexual desire. You will definitely have a luscious sex life together, as it will be a means of feeling safe and nurtured.
Ceres Trine Venus:
You are easily drawn and attracted to each other and know how to care and support each other within this serious relationship. You can promote desire and love in each other as well as nurture. This means that the relationship has a healthy and easy flow and balance.
Juno Opposition Moon:
This is an important personal relationship which has some sort of contract or bond, possibly marriage. You are bonded together but at times may find it challenging to integrate your feelings for each other. Whichever person appears to be the more receptive partner may identify much more with this feeling conflict, when you are together.
Juno Opposition Mars:
This is an important relationship which has some sort of contract or bond, possibly marriage or business that focuses on work, activities or sexual expression. You are bonded to be together but you may find it challenging to integrate your sexuality or work at times. Others may be involved in this dynamic within the relationship.
Juno Square Neptune:
In this important relationship, you have difficulty combining your subtle, soul link with the contract or bond you share, whether marriage or business. You are bonded together but there seems to be inherent differences in your boundary needs. Be careful to pay attention to balancing both acknowledgement and honoring of your individual boundaries and your contract so that difficulties will be minimized. As vulnerable humans we need to work together and partnerships are a foundation of our relationships with others. So we need to develop these to serve and protect our vulnerabilities. In this context of safety, we can grow the relationship in love and trust together.
Juno Trine Saturn:
This important relationship easily incorporates the contract or bond that you share, whether marriage or business with your responsibilities and duties. There is a real flow with this bond and your commitment to each other. You easily can go the long haul with each other and feel harmonious in your sense of duty so that you really feel well matched.
Vesta Square Saturn:
You have difficulty combining your commitment together with the strong work ethic that exists within the relationship. You want to be together but there seems to be inherent differences with your responsibilities and duties as regards work and sacrifice. You both may tend to overcompensate for any difficulties within the relationship by throwing yourselves into work, healing and creative sacrifice. It is important that both of you are working from the same page and that you are trusting each other's contribution. Be careful to pay attention to balancing both your commitment and this work drive so that difficulties will be minimized. You need to creatively balance this strong sense of service and healing within the context of the sexual relationship as well, so that it can be almost a tantric experience of wholeness.
Vesta Trine Uranus:
You experience a lot of harmony together as your strong work ethic flows easily with your needs for independence and freedom. You may both tend to overcompensate for any difficulties within the relationship by throwing yourselves into work, healing and creative sacrifice. However your individual expression flows easily and so does not imply conflict between you as regards this focus. There is also a creative flow of your strong sense of service and healing within the context of the sexual relationship as well, so that it can be almost a tantric experience of wholeness.
Vesta Trine Asc.:
You experience a lot of harmony together as your strong work ethic flows easily with how the partnership expresses to others. You may both tend to overcompensate for any difficulties within the relationship by throwing yourselves into work, healing and creative sacrifice. However the relationship flows easily and so does not imply conflict between you as regards this focus. There is also a creative flow of service and healing within the context of the sexual relationship as well, so that it can be almost a tantric experience of wholeness. Others will also see the flow of creative service from the relationship and may benefit from this too.
Psyche Conjunct Moon:
This is a real soul union in which you both feel comfortable to develop personally through the relationship. You are able to find who you are as individuals by looking in the mirror of each other's eyes. You feel comfortable in caring for each other on your journey to wholeness. You feel very connected to each other psychologically and the relationship affords you transformation and healing. Whichever person appears to be the more receptive partner, may identify much more with the comfortable feeling of personal development, when you are together.
Psyche Conjunct Mars:
This is a real soul union in which your energy and sexual expression support you both in personal development within the relationship. Through your sexual relationship, activities and work you are able to find who you are as individuals by looking in the mirror of each other's eyes. You are actively involved with each other on your journey to wholeness. You are very connected to each other psychologically and the relationship affords you transformation and healing.
Psyche Square Neptune:
You have difficulty combining your soul union which embodies your personal development, with the intuitive, subtle connection you share. You want to be connected but there seems to be inherent differences in your soul needs for wholeness. Be careful to pay attention to balancing both your boundary issues and personal development so that difficulties will be minimized. If you work through these difficulties you have the potential to find who you are as individuals by looking in the mirror of each other's eyes. You also have the potential to be very connected to each other psychologically and the relationship can afford you transformation and healing.
Psyche Trine MC:
This is a significant relationship and you easily integrate this soul union which embodies your personal development, with the structure that you are building together, whether home, family or business. You go with the flow of your roles and find who you are as individuals by looking in the mirror of each other's eyes. You are also very connected to each other psychologically and the relationship easily affords you transformation and healing.
Psyche Sextile Saturn:
You can see opportunities for this soul union which encompasses personal development and the commitment you share. Others may offer you opportunities to find who you are as individuals by looking in the mirror of each other's eyes. You also have the potential to connect with each other psychologically and the relationship can afford you transformation and healing.
Sappho Conjunct Uranus:
In this relationship you experience a sense of comradeship, where you share similar values in beauty and the arts alongside your independence and freedom. You aim for refinement as regard your deeper more unconscious feelings and your sexual expression. By elevating these areas through the arts and ideas you will experience acceptance, and therefore healing.
Sappho Conjunct Pluto:
In this relationship you experience a sense of comradeship, where you share similar values in beauty and the arts within your transforming intensity. You aim for refinement as regard your deeper more unconscious feelings and your sexual expression. By elevating these areas through the arts and ideas you will experience acceptance, and therefore healing.
Sappho Conjunct Asc.:
This is an incredibly strong partnership where you experience a sense of comradeship, and share similar values in beauty and the arts. You aim for refinement as regard your deeper more unconscious feelings and your sexual expression. By elevating these areas through the arts and ideas you will experience acceptance, and therefore healing. Others can see this quality within your partnership and may benefit from it as well.
Sappho Opposition Mercury:
This is a profound meeting where your sense of comradeship will be polarized with your thinking and communicating. You share similar values in beauty and the arts but at times may find it challenging to integrate with your talk and ideas. You aim for refinement as regard deeper more unconscious feelings and your sexual expression. By elevating these areas through the arts and ideas and balancing them with your minds, you will experience acceptance, and therefore healing.
Sappho Opposition Chiron:
This is a profound meeting where your sense of comradeship will be polarized with the past relationship wounds that emerge when you are together. You share similar values in beauty and the arts but at times may find it challenging to integrate your human vulnerabilities. You aim for refinement as regard deeper more unconscious feelings and your sexual expression. By elevating these areas through the arts and ideas and balancing them with your sense of wholeness, you will experience acceptance, and therefore healing.
Eros Trine Mercury:
It is easy to surrender to this great Love in your thinking and communicating together! Your ideas and conversations flow smoothly as you are touched and shaped deeply by this erotic connection. You can easily love your vulnerabilities and find a sense of meaning in surrendering to this Love.
Eros Trine Jupiter:
It is easy to surrender to this great Love as part of your sense of meaning together! Your philosophy and belief systems together flow smoothly as you are touched and shaped deeply by this erotic connection. You can easily love your vulnerabilities and find a sense of meaning in surrendering to this Love.
Cupido Opposition Neptune:
This is a profound meeting where your attractiveness to each other will be polarized with the intuitive, subtle connection together. You are very much attracted to each other from a deep unconscious level because you complement each other in attractiveness and beauty but at times may find it challenging to integrate the empathy you share. You are challenged to understand that the beauty you are attracted to in each other reflects a hidden beauty in yourself and that is why you turn each other on sexually too.
Cupido Square Mars:
You have difficulty coming to terms with your attractiveness to each other and your energies and sexual expression. You are very much attracted to each other from a deep unconscious level because you complement each other in attractiveness and beauty but there seems to be inherent differences in your activities and sexuality. Be careful to pay attention to balancing both the attraction to each other's beauty and your work and sexual styles so that difficulties will be minimized. You are challenged to understand that the beauty you are attracted to in each other reflects a hidden beauty in yourself and that is why you turn each other on sexually too.
Cupido Trine Pluto:
Your attraction for each other flows easily with your sense of empowerment together. This attraction flows from a deep unconscious level because you complement each other in attractiveness and beauty. It is easy to find a beauty in each other as that reflects a hidden beauty in yourself and this is pivotal to your empowerment together. As a result this promotes desire and turns each other on sexually too.
Cupido Trine True Node:
You may take it for granted how easily you integrate the destiny of your attraction for each other. This attraction flows from a deep unconscious level because you complement each other in attractiveness and beauty. It is easy to find a beauty in each other as that reflects a hidden beauty in yourself and this is pivotal to the sense of fatefulness together. As a result this promotes desire and turns each other on sexually too. Within the context of this flow, you will discover the areas that will easily be developed as individuals within this relationship. These lessons will be related to the mirror of each other's attractiveness.
Amor Square Moon:
You have difficulty combining your destined, perfected love, which may be difficult to experience in reality with how comfortable you feel together. You love each other purely but there seems to be inherent differences in your feelings. Be careful to pay attention to balancing both identifying the boundaries between you and honoring and loving each other and the feeling of comfort between you so that difficulties will be minimized. At times you may find it challenging to integrate the more hidden unconscious dimensions of your desire and attraction. Whichever person appears to be the more receptive partner may identify much more with this conflict comfort levels of love, when you are together.
Amor Trine Uranus:
This relationship flows easily with your destined, perfected love, which may be difficult to experience in reality with your individual and freedom needs. You can easily and creatively incorporate more hidden unconscious dimensions of desire and attraction in this relationship. Within the ease between you, both of you can identify your boundaries and honor and love each other as a result.
Amor Trine Asc.:
This significant partnership flows easily with your destined, perfected love, which may be difficult to experience in reality. You can easily and creatively incorporate more hidden unconscious dimensions of desire and attraction in this relationship. Within the ease between you, both of you can identify your boundaries and honor and love each other as a result.
Aphrodite Conjunct Pluto:
This is a "bolt out of the blue" fated relationship and figures largely in your empowerment together. You are challenged to be creative in developing this relationship in its own mold and to benefit from the depth and profundity that it offers.
Aphrodite Conjunct True Node:
This is a "bolt out of the blue" fated relationship and figures largely your destiny together. You are challenged to be creative in developing this relationship in its own mold and to benefit from the depth and profundity that it offers. Within the context of this fate, you will discover the areas that need to be developed or worked upon as individuals within this relationship. These lessons will tend to be focused on your individual relationship.
Aphrodite Opposition Sun:
This is a profound meeting where your "bolt out of the blue" fated relationship will be polarized with the purpose of being together. You are destined to be connected but at times you may find it challenging to integrate the relationship mission. You are challenged to be creative in developing this relationship in its own mold and to benefit from the depth and profundity that it offers. Whichever person appears to be the more active partner may identify much more with polarization with fate, when you are together.
Chapter 6: Summary
"Just because you love someone doesn't mean you have to be involved with them. Love is not a bandage to cover wounds." Hugh Elliott, Standing Room Only weblog, February 16, 2004
"The conception of two people living together for twenty-five years without having a cross word suggests a lack of spirit only to be admired in sheep." Alan Patrick Herbert
"Why is it so hard to find a soulmate? Because most of us are actually searching for egomates instead. We place the most limited and unloving aspect of our minds in charge of our search for love, and then wonder why we aren't succeeding. To the degree that we identify with this false sense of self, and operate on the basis of its limited point of view, we aren't looking for someone to love so much as recruiting fellow actors to take on supporting roles in a favorite melodrama." Carolyn Godschild Miller "Soulmates: Following Inner Guidance to the Relationship of Your Dreams."
Relationships can be challenging & sometimes seem more trouble than they are worth. We are challenged to live our best life & to be the best that we can be! These days going down the relationship path, consciously, can be more profound & enlightening than getting thyself into a nunnery! We see each other through the mirror & reflection in each other's eyes, of who we are & what we are doing or not doing! We cannot hide or delude ourselves when we live in the light of our partner's eyes. So if we choose to take this path in life we are subject to all the gifts & joys of sharing, companionship, care & love that relating can bring. We are also brought more fully into conscious attention to our own souls & personal development. We honor & respect each other's boundaries & separation so that we can unite with each other in love & compassion. On a bigger scale the microcosm of our personal & business relationships are the seed of our community, our country & our planet. We have all been brought together under the banner of humanity & our spiritual challenge is learning to live with ourselves firstly & then others in a harmonious, peaceful & respectful way! When seen from this perspective, whatever needs to be addressed in our immediate relationships, will provide a good basis for a better planet! May these reflections help serve that purpose!
Romantic and Sexual Attraction Medium Score (107):
This relationship has a reasonable level of romantic & sexual attraction & that means that you would enjoy being together. This is a good foundation for any kind of relationship that you wish to develop together.
Good Communication, Problem Solving Low Score (7):
This relationship can easily get into difficulties due to lack of communication. This means that you will constantly have to be aware of the danger of the two of you going in different directions. Of course this means that the relationship may become redundant if neither of you are paying attention to this inadequacy. If you have an investment in this relationship, you could learn some good communication skills. You must also keep very vigilant about what is happening for both of you most of the time.
Longevity & Commitment High Score (173):
This relationship has an excellent ability to go the distance & be a stable foundation for both of you. You can rely on each other & will easily be able to face challenges or difficulties. In fact these will only increase your commitment.
Sense of Fate & Destiny Together Low Score (32):
There is hardly any feeling of destiny or compulsion to this relationship but it could still serve you on the day to day level. You will not feel driven to learn & act in certain ways when you are together. As a result you can make of this relationship what you want or need.
Challenges & Weaknesses Low Score (60):
This relationship does not have major areas of stress or weakness. It is reasonably easy to keep your attention on each other's needs & desires & steer in a positive direction. There is a reasonable amount of consistency & comfort being together & it does not require a lot of work.
"Love is the most difficult and dangerous form of courage. Courage is the most desperate, admirable, and noble kind of love." Delmore Schwartz
Chapter 7: Credits
Pemo Theodore has been a practising Australian astrologer for 26 years in many countries including Australia, Canada, Ireland & the US. She completed the Federation of Australian Astrologer's certificate exam in November 1983 & was then President of the FAA on the Sunshine Coast, Queensland. She taught astrology classes & lectured. She was a Jungian therapist for 7 years having trained with an Jungian analyst, Patrick Jansen, graduating with a Diploma of Rebirthing & Transpersonal Psychodynamics in 1985. She is now a certified International Coach Federation Associate certified Coach. She established her business Star Consulting in Dublin, Ireland in 2000 & was featured on radio, TV & newspaper articles. She was the founding President of the Ireland chapter of the ICF. She was in the first round of ISAR certified astrologers in August 2005.
Pemo's gift & greatest love, both as an astrologer, therapist & coach, has been relationships; what makes them work & what undermines them. She was featured in 2004 in a Dublin 98FM promotion in which she was the relationship coach & astrologer and achieved an extremely positive outcome for a couple. She continues to coach them & other couples. This project, the "Star-Mate Composite Report", has been a labour of love!
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